Question by Drew L: Could you go from having premature ejaculation to erectile dysfunction?
I’m 18 and have always had problems with premature ejaculation. However, now I recently started experiencing erectile dysfunction out of the blue. What the hell?

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Answer by burtlikko
Get out of your head. This sounds more psychological than physiological. You’re really worked up about sex, about having sex, and about your performance during sex. That makes your subconscious mind work against your conscious desires.

I have two pieces of advice, one pleasant, one will seem like it is not so pleasant. The pleasant advice is, pleasure yourself frequently. The not-so pleasant advice is to take it easy when you’re interacting romantically with a partner. Let the romance be a romance rather than a race into the bed. What you want to do is teach yourself how your body functions, how to achieve, enjoy, and maximize the pleasure you get from your body — and to teach yourself that there’s more to a relationship than putting tab A into slot B. I’m not saying don’t have sex in a relationship — I’m saying put the relationship first and keep the sex in perspective.

In fact, I predict that you’ll ultimately find that both pieces of advice are actually quite pleasurable. Romance is supposed to be fun.

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